I removed all of the prior posts when I started looking for new employment about a year ago. I did not want any future employers to see my blog or find me unprofessional on any social media site. Well, it must have worked because from the time that I deleted the prior blogs to now, I have started a new career. Actually, my life has changed significantly since I wrote on this blog four years ago. This post will be a lot like the ones of the past, it will catch you up! Let’s begin, shall we? (Enjoy Grandma)
Life starting in 2011: I was working for the NCUA and traveling far too much. At that time though, the traveling was fun, exciting, and allowed me to occasionally spend time with the small group of girls I love! Jessica, Jennifer, Kerri, Lauren, and Sarah lived hundreds of miles away in various directions but when we were together, it felt like we had been friends for years. It truly amazed me that we came from all over the U.S. and are still so similar and get along so well. Aside from the friendships gained, work was always stressful and felt like a never-ending uphill battle. I had some colleagues I really enjoyed working with and learning from, while others made me want to bang my head into a wall. Also, having a manager who did not have an ounce of professionalism or deserve the slightest bit of respect did not help.
I had just started dating Mike “officially” and things were going great. The relationship had a strong foundation and friendship to begin with, so it just headed toward destiny. In May of 2011, I bought my townhome in Ramsey, MN and it was such a wonderful place. At the end of the year, Mike moved in with me and started job hunting. This was a huge leap of faith for him to take and such a statement of commitment. He left his home, the comfort of his family, and a stable job just to move in with me; sometimes the scariest things are the most satisfying. Shortly after moving in, Mike found a job with MJ Lorenz Concrete and absolutely loved it. Everything was falling into place.
2012 was a wonderful year. Mike proposed on July 16th at the Color Run and the wedding planning began. This year was full of ups and downs, but we had our eyes set of 5/25/13!
2013 was filled with every possible emotion. The first half of the year was chaos. Mike and I sold our townhome in Ramsey and bought our home in Ham Lake. Thanks to Sharon, my mom, and Mike and his brothers, we were settled in our home on just the first day!
After the move, the weekends were filled with showers, parties, and wedding prep-work; it was such an exciting time. The wedding could not have gone any better and I became Ashley Shrode! I truly am so blessed to have married such a wonderful man.
Many people know Mike as the comedian and someone who is always fun to be around. Many know he is artistic, athletic, musical and a handy-man. What many people may not know is how strong Mike is, how caring he is, how much he puts his full faith and trust in God to lead the way. He is a wonderful Christian man and a wonderful husband. One day, he will make a wonderful father as well.
Mike and I took a trip to Washington D.C. over Labor Day and it was wonderful. We covered a lot of ground and history over the long weekend, but it was fun for me to see his first reaction to everything there. We went to places I had seen 20 times from working with NCUA, but none of those times compared to sharing it with Mike.
In the fall, things kind of took a turn downhill for my family. My dad was showing signs of heart failure. He has always had heart disease but it was really beginning to weigh heavily on him. In September (on my birthday actually) dad was at Abbott Hospital in Minneapolis about to get a pacemaker when he was informed that was only a “temporary fix.” My dad was told he would need a heart transplant or he would have not have many years ahead of him – and those years would not be of great quality. Things like this can bring a family closer, or tear them apart. I believe it brought our family closer. We had our ups and downs, many arguments, and many tears, but we knew that we all had to be strong, have faith and let God lead us. My dad chose to wait in the hospital for a heart to be available (he would receive it faster that way). Days went by, weeks, and eventually months and we did not know when he would get the heart. It was VERY, VERY hard to watch weeks go by without any news and for my dad to just be hospital bound. He was able to ride a stationary bicycle, read/play on his ipad, but it was killing him slowly. We spent Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year’s all in the hospital. No fresh air for him, no feeling of snow, and worst of all, no ice fishing for him.
All during this time, my job was becoming unbearable; I needed to look elsewhere. I was on the road all the time and not able to be there for my dad and family. I was stuck in a position that had no advancement opportunity for AT LEAST the next two years – it wasn’t looking good.
2013 ended with Mike and me taking a much-needed trip to Lutsen with Sam and Raquel (Mike’s brother and his wife) to go snowboarding. While we were on the five hour drive up to Lutsen, I received an email that I would have an interview with Thrivent Federal Credit Union for the internal audit position– it was the glimmer of hope I needed.
2014 started off with a bang! After several interviews, I was notified that I got the position with TFCU and would start just a few weeks later. I put in my notice to NCUA without hesitation and have never looked back.
The week I found out I got the job was the same week dad was notified there was a heart available. My mom called me frantic and let me know that they had a heart. There was an immediate instinct to organize myself and get to the hospital, all while tears of joy were streaming down my face. Mike was at work and I called him to get home ASAP. Of course though, just like every other weekend that winter, there was an ice/snowstorm and it was a challege to get to the hospital. Mike and I got down to Abbott around 8:00 pm and my mom and brothers would be down shortly after. Dad seemed very calm (which he always did) but I think under it all, we all felt the relief and sense of fear at the same time. The doctors informed us the actual surgery would not be until the next morning. We all stayed at the hospital that night anyway; we tried to sleep, tried to play games, tried to eat. My dad went into surgery and we sat and waited. At 4:00 pm we were notified that the surgery went well and he would be going into recovery. After dinner that night, we were able to go see him and by the next morning he was sitting up in a chair. It all seemed too unreal and we were all in such a haze. There are no words to describe the gratitude I have to the nurses and doctors who helped my dad in the hospital for those months and for the surgeons that day. Mostly, though, there was a man who died too young but made the decision to donate. His choice saved my dad’s life and to him and his family and I forever thankful. “A few years” with my dad turned into many years. It was a blessing from God.
I started my job with Thrivent FCU in March of 2014 and it has been another blessing from God. This job now gives me purpose and I have some pretty amazing coworkers. I have supervisors who support me and are great examples of strong women who have it all (faith, family, career). Oh, and I also really enjoyed decorating my office! Thrivent is a wonderful place to work and has made me a better person. Don’t get me wrong, there are stressful days, but this job allows me to go home every night to Michael, to cook my own meals, and to sleep in my own bed. I have a voice at this job and feel necessary.
2014 started with a new job and a new heart for my dad. Mike and I celebrated our one-year anniversary and added Bella (our black lab) to the family.
Over Labor Day weekend we took a 10-day road trip with Sam and Raquel. We went to Yellowstone, to Salt Lake City, to Las Vegas, to the Hoover Dam, to the Grand Canyon, to Sedona, to Albuquerque, to Colorado Springs, to Rocky Mountain National Park, to Mount Rushmore and Lake Sylvan. It was breathtaking. We saw so much ‘Merica and spent quality time with two great people; what an amazing adventure SHRODETRIP 2014 was.
I am beyond blessed. Mike and I enjoy our life, our marriage, our careers, and our family. We are blessed by God in so many ways and are constantly working on how to be better disciples for Him. I am hoping through this blog that I will be able to share what is on my mind and on my heart, to reach out to family and friends, and to be a voice for many who may share these same feelings.
“Love only grows by sharing. You can only have more of yourself by giving it away to others.”
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